

You deserve the best images.
Through reflecting on my own wedding experience as well as working with dozens of couples, I have created this guide to share simple tips and tricks to make the most out of your time with me and to get the best images.
All of these tips are suggestions I’ve gathered from the weddings I’ve been a part of previously. I certainly don’t expect you to implement ALL of them as I’m 100% about what you want for your wedding day. My goal with these tips is to help you and provide suggestions about things that you maybe hadn’t considered!
Getting Ready
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Standard hotel rooms often have unappealing features like desks, TVs, or large ACs/Heaters. They also can become cramped depending on how many people are sharing the room with you. Who knows, you may even save money by using AirBnB instead!
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This makes it easier for me to photograph both of you getting ready. It also eliminates extra traveling for me, which means I can spend more time photographing!
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I know this is hard, especially if you are sharing the room with your bridesmaids or groomsmen. But do you really want that half empty bottle of alcohol or someone’s messy overnight bag in the background of you putting your dress/suit on? Probably not! Consider keeping one room designated for getting ready, so that way you can keep it clean and clutter free. Fear not—If all else fails, when I arrive I will gladly select the best room and shove everyone’s things into a hidden spot. ;)
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Not only does this provide the most flattering light, but it’s helpful for whoever is doing your hair and makeup, as they typically prefer to work in rooms with the most natural light as well.
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This includes your jewelry, dress, shoes, rings, invitation, and any other items you want images of. This will help make this part move faster for me so we can get to the REALLY fun things, like you getting dressed! :D
Bonus Tip: Remove all the tags the night before or that morning. This way when I arrive I don’t have to spend time finding scissors or taking all the tags off of your jewelry or dress.
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Some brides purchase hangers that have their soon to be new last name on them. This is one option, or you could simply purchase a wooden hanger, or even something a little more exciting, like one with sequences. Whatever fits your vibe!
Bonus Tip: Google “Wedding Dress Hanger” for some inspiration.
First Look
More and more couples are choosing to do a first look instead of the traditional first look at the aisle. When I was getting married back in 2014, I didn’t even know it was a thing. I wish I did though because I think I would have done it!
Here are a few great reasons to consider a first look:
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Stressed because it’s in front of everyone? Maybe a first look would be good for you. A first look creates an intimate setting of sharing that moment as just the two of you, without everyone watching.
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By choosing to do a first look, you can also have all of your family formal and bridal party photos taken ahead of time. After the ceremony, you can then finish any miscellaneous family portraits if need be, as well as spending a few more minutes taking some ‘just married’ couple portraits. Instead of it taking you an hour or more to enter your reception, you can be mingling with your guests in 30 minutes or less!
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Couples who don’t do a first look usually can’t afford to have a large gap of time between their ceremony and reception, and only end up having 15 minutes for their portraits. A large portion of the images you will print out after the wedding are going to be of you and your spouse, so why not make more time for them?
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Couples who do a first look can experience just as much emotion at the aisle as couples who don’t do a first look. Every couple reacts differently on their wedding day. I think many brides have high expectations of their groom at the aisle, but truthfully most grooms I’ve worked with didn’t cry at the aisle or during a first look. It’s kind of like Hollywood romance movies—they create this false idea of what real love looks like. Whether you do a first look or not, it will be special. Don’t overthink what your reactions will be during those moments. It’s hard to know what exactly you will do until you are in that moment.
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Some couples choose to meet at a corner of a wall or opposite sides of a tree to hold hands, pray, read a special note from each other, etc. I have seen other couples who do a first look but keep their eyes closed the whole time so they don’t actually see each other! The possibilities are endless. You can do whatever you want!

The Ceremony
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I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen people fumbling around with their phones during the ceremony rather than paying attention to the couple. It makes me especially sad when I am trying to photograph the parents of the bride and groom and I can’t get a good photo because they have a phone in front of their face. Out of all the people, your parents especially, should be the ones who are fully present. This is a big day for them too! You hired me to capture these moments so that your guests can enjoy every moment while being fully present. Let’s be honest: Is that grainy, blurry photo Aunt Sandy got on her iPad one that you will want to have or print out? Probably not. You can encourage your guests to go unplugged by having a simple sign at the ceremony entrance, like pictured above.
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YES, I have had guests get up and walk around during the ceremony to get photos. This makes it more challenging for me and that person could potentially get in my way or block my view. EAK! No one wants that.
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I try to be respectful at all times to all people during the ceremony and reception, so ask ahead of time so I can be in the loop with your venues. I don’t want to make any unnecessary awkward moments happen on your big day!
Family Formals
Family photos are so important.
In 20 years from now, you will be thanking your past self for getting that photo with Grandma, that favorite Uncle, or your Godmother. About 6 weeks out from your wedding date, I will request a list of must have photos with family + friends. This is your opportunity to let me know who all those special people are and who you want a photo with. Here are a few tips to ensure that we make the process as efficient and painless as possible!
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Without any travel, for family, bridal, and couple portraits. If you give me a list that is too long for the time frame we have, I will let you know that we can’t make it happen so we will either need to cut down your list or make time elsewhere in your day.
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Please make your family photos as simple as possible, and avoid having too many combinations. To know how long family photos will take, consider that ONE family photo combination will take 1 minute. For example, if you have 20 family photo combinations, then family photos will take a minimum of 20 minutes.
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One for you and for your soon to be spouse. For example, list all of the bride’s family photos, and then the groom’s.
When writing this list, as you create each combination, include every person’s name involved in the specific combo. Example: You want a photo with you, the groom, and your parents. You would list this as: “Bride + Groom with Sandy and John”, but using their actual names, of course! This way when I am organizing each group I can simply call out every person’s name for that photo.
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Don’t just copy and paste these and send them to me. Why? Because they are usually SUPER long and not actually what you want anyway. When you are thinking of making your photo list, think about who is important to you. Who do you want a photo with? What photo will you treasure 20 years from now after that person may have passed away? Get pictures with these people.
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Instead, try to combine family members and get larger group shots as this will keep the process moving along faster. The truth is, many couples don’t realize how tiring family photos can become, especially if you have listed a lot of combinations. If you want a photo with you and your Mom, that is totally okay! I’m all for it. I’m talking about combinations that are like you and Aunt Patty, and then you and Aunt Sandy, and etc! Instead, list a group photo that includes all of your aunts and uncles along with you and your partner.
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This helper should be someone who knows the family well and can help me organize everyone I need for the photos. This can help move the process along quicker and get people out faster. This is especially a good idea if you want to take large group family photos.
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Let your family members know ahead of time that you want them to stick around after the ceremony for photos. It happens all the time where Uncle Joe wandered off or left for the reception because he didn’t know. You can tell your family members ahead of time through any form of communication, or if they are attending your rehearsal dinner, that’s a great time to tell them as well!

Bridal Party
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Although not in any particular order, usually just depends on the wedding. I focus on getting some formal and fun images of the bride w/ her bridesmaids, as well as images of the bride with each bridesmaid separately. I do the same for the groom with his groomsmen. I will then do a mix of formal and fun images with the whole bridal party together. And that’s all! I try to keep it under 30 minutes, as it can be a lot of people to work with and the bridal party often wants to get to the reception to party, so I don’t want to keep them any longer than necessary. This set up has worked well at all of the weddings I have photographed. If you want to incorporate any specific photos, feel free to let me know.
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While it can be tempting for some bridal party groups, avoid letting your party drink too much alcohol before the bridal party formal photos are done. Some couples rent a party bus or limo, stop for alcohol on the way to their formal photos, and then the bridal party gets a little rowdy from drinking. I want to get them (and you guys!) to your reception as soon as possible, so if they avoid drinking and can have a clear state of mind, this will help the process move faster.
The Reception
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Be sure to coordinate with your DJ’s timeline to ensure that you have me during your reception long enough to capture all of the main events, such as your first dance, cake cutting, parent dances, money dance, bouquet/garter toss, a special exit, or any other moments you really want captured.
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Many brides purchase shoes for their wedding day that they end up hating and can’t wait to take off. Go for comfort if possible, or at the very least, bring an extra pair of shoes to wear during your reception so you can enjoy tearing up the dance floor! ;)
Allow time during your reception to include sunset portraits. See more on this below!

Sunset Portraits
Sunset portraits are something to consider incorporating during your wedding day.
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Sunsets portraits ultimately are a great way to get a few more portraits of you and your love bug.
In addition to wanting more portraits, couples sometimes choose to do this to get a little break from their reception and to be alone (well.. alone with me, hehe)! :)
Sunsets provide warm, flattering light. Sometimes rainy days give the best sunsets.. full of pastel colors!
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Typically I spend 10-15 minutes outside with a couple around the time of sunset to capture some portraits.
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The easiest way to figure out when the sunset is on your wedding date is to Google “wedding date sunset”. For example, if you were getting married on September 1st, 2019, you would Google “September 1st 2019 sunset” and the time should pop up as the first result. This will give you an idea of when it would happen during your reception.
Since sunsets are unpredictable in how they unfold, I suggest putting them on your timeline around 15 minutes before the actual sunset. On the day of, I pay attention to the sky and when it looks best is when I’ll take you guys out for the portraits.
What if it Rains?
Every couples biggest fear.. what if it rains?
First of all, IT’S GONNA BE OKAY! Your wedding day is going to be awesome because you are getting to marry the love of your life. Some raindrops can’t change that! Secondly, don’t let rain stress you out. There are ways to deal with the rain on your wedding day and to make the most of it.
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Rain is something none of us can control, so the best thing is to focus on making the most of your day and embracing it for what it is… rain or shine! :) After photographing several weddings where it rained, I find that rain can actually add a fun and romantic element to your wedding day, if you are willing to see it that way! It also makes for some unique portraits!
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Buy some clear umbrellas (like pictured above) for you and your bridal party. At the very least, you can purchase one clear umbrella for you and your love bug.
Bonus Tip: I recommend buying ONLY clear umbrellas for a few reasons. One is that because they are clear, they allow light to come through onto your face. If you buy a solid color, it will cast a shadow which would be unflattering if it’s a color like purple or orange! Clear umbrellas also match any and all wedding styles and they look classy too!
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This is something I can help you find as well. Some examples: Getting married in a park? Look to see if there are nearby pavilions. Another option is that sometimes if there are large trees next to each other, their branches can be thick enough to provide a “natural umbrella”. Getting married at a barn? Check to see if there are overhangs/awnings on any of the buildings, or even an indoor spot that will be available that guests won’t be in. Getting married in the city? Many businesses have overhangs. You could also consider nearby locations that provide covering.
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There are a couple possibilities… one, buy umbrellas and embrace the weather! Another option is that we could rearrange the day and move portraits to earlier/later in the day to avoid the rain, if possible.

Sample Timeline
About 6 weeks out from your wedding date I will request at least a rough timeline of your wedding day.
Wedding day timelines can look different depending on many factors. This is a sample timeline to give you an idea or frame of reference for how to plan out your wedding day. While it won’t work for everyone, it’s a place to start.
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-These are only sample timelines. Depending on travel factors, times would need to be adjusted. It’s always best to give yourself MORE time than you think, just in case.
-If you look at the timeline w/o a First Look, you will see I have scheduled bridesmaids and groomsmen photos before the ceremony to help break things up and also so you can get into your reception sooner. If you DO NOT do a first look, and we CANNOT do any bridal party photos before the ceremony, you must give me at least 1.5 hours after the ceremony to do family, bridal party, and couples portraits. Family photos and bridal party photos can easily take up to an hour to do and I want to make sure we have enough time to get your portraits done and stay on schedule.-Things tend to take longer than you might expect on wedding days. Please always schedule MORE time than you think you need just in case. Nothing adds stress like feeling behind schedule or that your guests are waiting on you.
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1:00PM Groom’s outfit details (Suit, Shoes, etc).
1:15PM Groom gets dressed
2:00PM Bride’s outfit details (Dress, Shoes, Invite, etc).
2:30PM Bride finishing hair + makeup photos
3:00PM Bride gets dressed
3:30PM First Look / Couples Portraits
4:00PM Bridal Party Photos
4:45PM Ceremony + Reception Detail Photos
5:30PM Ceremony Begins
6:00PM Ceremony Ends / Cocktail Hour Begins
6:00PM Family Photos
6:15PM Bride + Groom ‘Just Married Photos’6:20PM Bride & Groom join Cocktail Hour
6:30PM Reception Begins (Entrances, Toast, Dinner)
7:45PM Cake Cutting
7:50PM First Dance
7:55PM Parent Dances
8:00PM Open Dance Floor
8:30PM Sunset Photos
9:00PM Photos End
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1:00PM Bride’s outfit details (Dress, Shoes, etc).
1:30PM Bride finishes hair + make up, then gets ready
2:00PM Bride + Bridesmaid Formal Photos
2:15PM Groom’s outfit detail photos (Suit, Tie, etc).
2:30PM Groom gets ready
3:00PM Groom + Groomsmen Formal Photos
3:15PM Ceremony + Reception Detail Photos
4:00PM Ceremony Begins
4:30PM Ceremony Ends / Cocktail Hour Begins
4:35PM Family Photos
5:00PM Full Bridal Party Photos
5:15PM Bride + Groom Photos
6:00PM Reception Begins (Entrances, Toasts, Dinner)
7:15PM Cake Cutting
7:20PM First Dance
7:25PM Parent Dances
7:30PM Open Dance Floor
8:30PM Sunset Photos
9:00PM Photos End
A Few More Important Tips…
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You probably noticed this listed in the sample timelines. These are details I try to photograph before guests arrive and while all of your decor pieces are undisturbed. You spend a lot of time, effort, and $$$ creating the perfect details on your wedding day. Allow space in your timeline for me to spend a few minutes photographing them so that you can remember them! Note: Sometimes it isn’t possible for me to photograph these if your ceremony and reception sites are separate and the guests will be arriving before I do. However, I always do my best to photograph these details even if guests are present.
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This is immediately after the ceremony, when you greet all your guests as they head to cocktail hour. I typically encourage my clients to NOT have a receiving line as they can take longer than you think depending on how many guests you are inviting. Think about it like this: You invite 150 guests and you spend only 10 seconds greeting each guest. That right there is already 25 minutes that you’ve spent greeting, and that’s only 10 SECONDS per guest!! They also take away from portrait time between the ceremony and reception ending, which isn’t good if we already have limited time to photograph your family, bridal, and couple portraits!
Bonus Tip: Instead, during your reception, take time after you eat to walk to each table to greet your guests.
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Make sure to incorporate time into your day to eat snacks, have meals, and have water available at all times. It’s easy to skip these things due to your nerves or feeling too busy. But it’s super important for your health and stamina, since you will be using a lot of energy throughout the day!
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Wanna go out with a bang? Some couples end their night officially with sparklers, bird seed, eco-friendly confetti, bubbles, or even fireworks! These are all fun ways to wrap up your special day and make for a great “conclusion” in your photos. I suggest doing something that creates light (like sparklers) if you are doing it in the dark, so that I am able to photograph it without it being completely dark! Note: If you choose sparklers, make sure to purchase ones that are a couple feet long, so that they burn longer! If you purchase the shorter ones, by the time the last person has lit theirs, the first persons will most likely be burnt out already!
Bonus Tip: Don’t want to do an official exit but want to incorporate one of these into your wedding day? Consider doing it immediately after your ceremony ends (guests can throw confetti as you walk up the aisle together). Another option is having your guests line up outside after your ceremony. You can then walk through the line of people as they shower you with bubbles, bird seed, or confetti (see first image at the top of this page).
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Consider booking an engagement session with me if you haven’t already. This is a great opportunity for you to experience working with me before your big day. It may help eliminate stress and get you comfortable with how I work. Even if you don’t book one, we will still make awesome images on your wedding day! :)

FINAL TIP: Have fun!
THIS IS YOUR WEDDING DAY! Soak up every moment you can. As Pam says in The Office, take a moment to take mental snapshots of the high points. Look around you to see who is there…and remember all of these people came because they LOVE you and are so happy for you! It’s gonna be awesome, is what I’m trying to say. ;)
I can’t wait to celebrate with you! <3
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